I'm 29yrs old and gay. I'm currently befriending an older gentleman that I met when I used to be a male escort (only for a few months and only with him). I guess you can call him my sugar-daddy. Anyway, he's recently come into millions of $ and wants to buy a golf course resort. He wants me to manage the whole thing. Golf course, restaurant, hotel, and spa. I'm up for the challenge. And I'd love to live in Maui. But, am I doing the right thing? I mean, I'm not in love with the guy and he's not my type at all, but he is nice, buys me very nice things, gives me lots of money, and would buy me a home in Maui, give me a really nice salary and bonus, and I'd be financially secure.

1. We're going to Maui in a month or so to scope out the area, look at real estate, and the Golf Course Resort.
2. Please tell me what you think I should do or what you would do in my situation.
3. On paper it sounds like an ideal situation but in the long run since you don't love him it sounds like you would be miserable. In my opinion you would be unhappy and perhaps wind up cheating on him if you stayed with him or just leaving him altogether. Money doesn't buy happiness. I wouldn't do it honestly. Good luck.
4. *RED FLAG*… you don't really care about him… how low and dispicable is it to play off his affection… that's so sick, what if someone just used you cuz of the stupid stuff you gave them… second, its NEVER a good idea to put THAT much stock in a relationship that obviously isnt stable… what if he finds a hotter more interested man? you have no job, house, or ANYTHING and you're stranded in the middle of the ocean… if you're using him, you'd deserve it… but it'd still suck to be in your shoes… either get contracts that legally give those things to you, or else you're putting yourself in a compromised situation…

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